Rightsizing or Downsizing?\nThe size of our house is critically important when you are rightsizing. The reason Kathy called it rightsizing rather than downsizing is that she thinks it\u2019s all very individual. What\u2019s right for you might not be right for me. Also, rightsizing isn\u2019t a sacrifice; instead of a downgrade, it\u2019s an upgrade. The article, Think you need a 2000 sq ft house to be comfortable? Think again! talk about the benefits of rightsizing for you and your family.\nUnused Spaces\nA vast majority of us live in a tiny percentage of our actual square footage. Mostly when people come over, we just hang out in the kitchen or dining room. But the guest rooms or all these extra rooms and anything formal gets seldom used. That\u2019s where so much of the square footage of the house goes to all those things that aren\u2019t being used.\nIn my old house, we had a parlor, a formal dining room, and a breakfast area. We only used the formal dining room 3 times in the whole 10 years that we lived there. I never used the parlor; My husband would go in there sometimes to play the piano. These were probably 600 square feet that we never used.\nRightsizing Will Work for You\nIt\u2019s actually a habit of buying bigger houses. When you started looking, you think in your mind, \u201cOh, I need this much space I\u2019ve always had.\u201d And Kathy thinks it\u2019s very common for us to think, \u201cIf you are a hammer, everything looks like a nail.\u201d You are so used to looking at what you have become comfortable with. You don\u2019t think, \u201cMaybe you don\u2019t need all that much space. Maybe I should look at homes that are much smaller than I\u2019m accustomed to.\u201d Kathy started out with a 2,400 square foot house and they ended up buying a 1,400 square foot house. She didn\u2019t even think there\u2019s any way in the world that she could live in a 1,400 square foot house. But now she can\u2019t imagine living in anything bigger because they definitely rightsize into it.\nThe Secret About Bigger Houses\nBuilder\u2019s make more money when they sell you a bigger house. When they go mapped out a development, they want to squeeze as many houses as they can on the deluxe that they can get. Also, the bigger the house, the more they sell for it. Most houses sell for price per square foot. They\u2019re very invested in trying to get you to want a bigger house because they make more money out of it.\nRightsizing Means Fewer Expenses\nWhen Kathy downsized, she used the equity in their house and paid off their home, so it\u2019s free and clear. She would rather have a tiny house rather than 2 or 3 times more and have a mortgage on it that\xa0you constantly have to keep paying on.\nOur HOA fees are $285 a month, meaning that we moved for a more expensive area. Les and I moved to Sun City for the amenities. We have a 4-part series on our search for our new home. Here, they have great amenities; they have over a hundred clubs. That\u2019s why we moved here. And also, I\u2019ve met a ton of people, but you have to pay for everything.\nLet Go of It\nIt\u2019s all the other stuff that we have to let go of including the square footage of our houses. Kathy listened to one of our episodes about Multigenerational Living. In Kathy\u2019s words, loneliness is a huge problem as people get older. That is why having people around you is a great way to use the space in your home. You can also rent out rooms or bring in family members. There's a lot of ways you could still keep that house. That is rightsizing for you but it\u2019s not eating your lunch or it\u2019s not just setting their dead space.