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\nCriticism is not necessarily toxic, even when it is misguided. And no one likes to field complaints. Sometimes they are warranted, and sometimes they can be toxic. How can a pastor tell the difference? Thom covers the best ways pastors can discern toxic conflict from healthy conflict. It's not always easy, but he offers a few practical tips through six questions.\xa0
\n1. What is the motivation of the one complaining?
\n2. What is the goal of the conflict?
\n3. Are people talking about others or to others?
\n4. Is friction combative or respectful?
\n5. Are people leading with questions or exclamations?
\n6. Are you able to hang out afterward?
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\nResources:
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\n \t* California Baptist University Pre-College Credit
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\n \tOne Year Bible
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\n \t* Tyndale House Publishers
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\n \t* \u201cWhen the People Pray\u201d by Thom S. Rainer
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\n \t* Brown Church Development Group
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\n \t* Get your FREE tool! Attendance Growth Projector
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\n \t* Check out the Church Answers Christian bookstore! Shop curated, trusted resources for Christian life and ministry.
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