BROADCASTS.com

Which friend would you value more?\nFriend #1 \nIf you go out to eat they cover the bill\nIf you are going to watch Netflix or go to a movie they let you pick what to watch\nThey let you pick the music when you are driving\nThey take care of you when you are sick \nThey even cook and clean for you\nIn short, they expect very little in return just some appreciation\nFriend #2\nThey always want to pick what to watch\nIf you go out to eat they expect you to cover the bill\nIf they don\u2019t get their way they yell at you and get angry\nThey expect you to do things for them - to cook for them and clean up after them\nIn short, expect everything from you and provide very little in return\nWhy do we have more favor towards our children rather than our parents?\nIt doesn\u2019t make sense our parents raised us, \nthey took care of us, \nthey fed us, \nprovided us with shelter and protection, \nthey poured tons of money and made huge sacrifices to raise us\u2026\nyet our children do the opposite\nThey complain, \nthey are mean to us, \nthey demand things, \nthey expect us to do things for them and to take care of them. \nNot all of us are parents but all of us were children \nCake Mix\nhttps://www.bonappetit.com/entertaining-style/pop-culture/article/cake-mix-history\nWhen they first introduced cake mix in the 1930s it wasn\u2019t a success until the 1950\u2019s \nThe reason was that prior to 1950\u2019s all one needed to do was just add water, \nThere was no sense of ownership or accomplishment - can\u2019t take credit\nIn the 1950s they changed it where you would need to add eggs / sometimes butter and all of a sudden it was a big success?\nYou would think adding steps would be worse, but it made people\u2019s love of the product more\nIkea Effect \u2013\xa0Dan Ariely\nThe more effort we put into something the more we like it\nPaper Origami experiment \nSplit up into two groups: Builder and Buyers\nThe builders would make the origami and the buyers would value the work\nBuilders value their work as more valuable then buyers \nBut builders also thought that other people would love their work more than they actually did\nWhen they re-did the experiment and gave more difficult instructions regarding how to make the origami (so they took out some of the detail) the builders liked their work even more and the buyers valued it even less\nThis only holds true if the builder has something to show for in their endeavor - if they are left with a disappointed crumpled paper then this does not hold true.\nOr if you cook dinner you think it taste better than others\nOr if you make art \nThe effort we put into it is a big portion of how much we value it\nExample of Adam and Eve - they were in Paradise they had everything it was just given to them, yet they gave it all up because they didn\u2019t value what they had. \nAbraham\n[37:95] He said, "How can you worship what you carve? [37:96] "When GOD has created you, and everything you make!\u201d\n[26:69] Narrate to them Abraham's history. [26:70] He said to his father and his people, "What is this you are worshiping?" [26:71] They said, "We worship statues; we are totally devoted to them." [26:72] He said, "Can they hear you when you implore? [26:73] "Can they benefit you, or harm you?" [26:74] They said, "No; but we found our parents doing this." \n[26:75] He said, "Do you see these idols that you worship. [26:76] "You and your ancestors. [26:77] "I am against them, for I am devoted only to the Lord of the universe. [26:78] "The One who created me, and guided me. [26:79] "The One who feeds me and waters me. [26:80] "And when I get sick, He heals me. [26:81] "The One who puts me to death, then brings me back to life. [26:82] "The One who hopefully will forgive my sins on the Day of Judgment.\n[9:24] Proclaim: "If your parents, your children, your siblings, your spouses, your family, the money you have earned, a business you worry about, and the homes you cherish are more beloved to you than GOD and His messenger, and the striving in His cause, then just wait until GOD brings His judgment."