Is Helping Being Helpful? \xa0 Most of us encounter times and situations where we do benefit from various types of assistance from others.\xa0 We also are presented with many opportunities to assist others in a wide variety of ways with their diverse life difficulties. \xa0 There are a number of areas for each individual to consider when they make the choice to offer help to another.\xa0 Questions can include one's willingness and ability to help another in ways that are beneficial to them.\xa0 Or, is one's help being given to only reinforce my own generous perceptions of self?\xa0 What are the many expectations we each have in the giver-receiver relationship?\xa0 \xa0\xa0 \xa0 We each also have options to consider when we make the choice to open ourselves up to receiving help from others.\xa0 What types of limitations do I place on others and myself when assistance is sought and offered?\xa0\xa0 Have I communicated clearly what I am seeking?\xa0\xa0 Are ulterior motives present or is the communication honest and open?