If you want to move ahead in 2012 specifically and intentionally into what God has for you, then you will have to learn to deal with offenses correctly. The Bible says it is impossible for offenses not to come. You will have plenty of opportunities to be offended, but how you deal with that situation will determine where you go with the Lord. For more information, see the book and DVD teaching by John Bevere, "The Bait of Satan"