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People spend far too much time worrying about what other people will think of them, verses what they think about themselves.\xa0 As a result of this many people are living lives of quiet desperation, because they are dying to please others so that they will fit in.\xa0 They are saying yes, when they really mean no.\xa0 They are sucking it up, when they should be letting it rip.\xa0 All the time making choices based on what others will think.\xa0\n\nWe spend an enormous amount of time throughout our lives trying to please other people, primarily, because we feel this action, even though it\u2019s counter to what we want, will make our lives easier.\xa0 The ultimate goal of this behavior is to gain the approval of those we are seeking it from.\xa0 Approval in this instance, equates to acceptance, which means that someone has chosen to acknowledge you in a way that you need to be acknowledged.\xa0 And for a moment this makes you feel good about yourself, until you realize that you don\u2019t even resonate with their core values. \xa0\n\nThere is a danger with trying to please at the expense of self.\xa0 It slowly erodes at the fabric of who you are, until, you don\u2019t remember you anymore. \xa0You move from trying, to dying, because that\u2019s what happens to your soul when you go through life trying to please others, so they will like you and accept you.\n\nJoin me Dr. Wendy Dearborne Choice Expert and Laws of Attraction Coach and Olivia Lashley Expression and Laws of Attraction Coach as we look at what trying to please others can do to your life.