In 2015, 17-year-old Michelle Carter was indicted on charges connected to the suicide of her 18-year-old\nboyfriend, Conrad Roy Jr III. In a controversial 2017 trial, a Taunton, Massachusetts jury found her guilty\nof involuntary manslaughter. A similar case occurred in May 2019, though it received much less publicity.\nBoston College students Inyoung You and her boyfriend Alexander Urtula had been dating for 18 months\nwhen he died by suicide. An investigation would uncover an abundance of abusive text messages from\nInyoung in the months leading up to Alexander\u2019s death. The Carter and You cases involved problematic\ntext messages that many argue are what drove both victims in these cases to end their lives. But where\ndoes free will end and the power of suggestion take over? Is it possible to brainwash someone into\nending their own life? Let\u2019s see if we get any closer to answers as we explore Alexander Urtula\u2019s case in\nthis episode of MURDERISH.\n\nCheck us out: Visit Murderish.com for more info about the show and Creator/Host, Jami. The website also\nhas links to buy MURDERISH merchandise and become a Patreon supporter. Patrons can get access to\nexclusive, ad-free episodes. To sign up for Patreon, click \u201cGo Behind the Scenes\u201d at murderish.com OR\nclick here for a direct link to our Patreon page https://www.patreon.com/Murderish.\n\nLet\u2019s get social: @MurderishPodcast (Instagram & TikTok), @MurderishPod (Twitter), search \u201cMurderish\npodcast\u201d (Facebook).\n\nSponsors:\n- SimpliSafe: Visit SimpliSafe.com/murderish to claim a free indoor security camera plus 20% off\nwith Interactive Monitoring.\n- Upside: Download the free Upside app and use promo code murderish to get $5 or more cash back on your first purchase of $10 or more.\n- Stamps.com: Visit Stamps.com, click the microphone at the top of the page, and enter code MURDERISH for a 4-week trial, free postage and a digital scale.\n- Truebill: Visit Truebill.com/murderish to start canceling unwanted subscriptions & save money.\n- MasterClass: Visit MasterClass.com/MURDERISH for 15% off an annual membership.\n\n\nDirty Money Moves: Women in White Collar Crime: Subscribe now in your favorite podcast app! New\nepisodes drop every Thursday. Click here to listen on Apple Podcasts\nhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dirty-money-moves-women-in-white-collar-crime/id1619521092\n\nFollow Dirty Money Moves: Women in White Collar Crime on Instagram, TikTok and Twitter\n@DirtyMoneyMoves.\n\nWant to advertise on this show? We\u2019ve partnered with Cloud10 | iHeartRadio to handle our advertising\nrequests. If you\u2019re interested in advertising on MURDERISH, send an email to Sahiba Krieger\nmailto:sahiba@cloud10.fm with a copy to mailto:jami@murderish.com.\n\nSound design: Justin Hellstrom.\nMusic: Some of the music in this podcast was composed by Nico Vettese of We Talk of Dreams\nResearch & Writing: Alison Schwartz\n\nRemember, listening to this podcast doesn\u2019t make you a murderer - it just means you\u2019re murder...ish.\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices