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So, let's talk about the story and experience Black fathers go through in raising autism-diagnosed kids\u2026

Nick Richardson is an author, a loving husband, and a Black father to a son who has a dual diagnosis of autism and ADHD. Going through the experience of having to unlearn and relearn everything for the development of his son, he believes in the power and importance of having support groups and/or communities.

Just like what he said in this episode, more often than not, people \u2013 especially men \u2013 tend to forget that while they\u2019re going through the struggles, there are other people \u2013 or men \u2013 going through the same, too. Not to mention the lack of support for our brothers out there as well.

But while it is unfortunate that the stories of fathers \u2013 especially Black men \u2013 aren\u2019t being talked about enough these days, we cannot let our voices be silenced, for like our autistic loved ones, we also need all the support that we can receive.

And that\u2019s one of the reasons why he\u2019s here today \u2013 to send the message out there that this is happening and there are people whose story mirrors yours as well, and that we can be of help to one another as we journey this life and experience of having autistic kids.

So, join us, and let\u2019s talk about our story, because who knows? As Nick says, it can edify, help, or move somebody, and even teach people about autism and fatherhood as a parent whose child has special needs.

Why you need to check this episode:

• Discover the story of Black fathers who have a child on the spectrum (with special needs);
• Recognize the impact and importance of having a community or support group, especially within the African-American population; and
• Find out the internal letdowns usually experienced by fathers whose family member/s got diagnosed, and understand how and why fathers also need support

\u201cI believe African-Americans are communal people. I think we need each other in order for our children to grow and develop to be the most productive citizens possible.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

Notable Quotes:

\u201cEverything that you knew about raising a child, nine times out of 10, came from you being that child being raised [by] your parents or grandparents or people who have poured into you. [But] none of that now matters. For the most part, you can\u2019t do and raise your child in the manner that you were raised. So, what you think you know, you now have to unlearn, and relearn what is necessary for your child\u2019s development.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

\u201cWhen you\u2019re going through all of this, the one thing you do not realize is that there are other men going through it, too.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

\u201cIt\u2019s not just that brothers need brothers to understand that, but talking to other brothers helps you reflect on yourself. It kind of gives you a different perspective on what you can possibly do. In our support group, we don\u2019t tell anybody how to do anything. We give our stories, we give our experiences, we give the things that we\u2019ve tried, and if it works for you, take it; if it doesn\u2019t work, see if another brother has a different experience that you can use to help you in your situation.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

\u201cWe do a lot of sacrificing for our family because we care about them. We want our children to be the best versions of themselves as possible.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

\u201cThe negative energy that I was giving, my son was just taking it and giving it back; it wasn\u2019t helping him. So, I could not discipline him the way I was disciplined. I had to find another way, which is where some of these trainings are coming in and talking to ABA therapists.\u201d \u2013 Nick Richardson

Mentions:

• My Autism In Black Conference Recap
• AutisHim
• DSM-5
• Autism in Black

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