Ok, I\u2019ll say it\u2026I think it\u2019s a ridiculous idea that there\u2019s just one person out there for each of us. \xa0But before you go calling me a cynic, I want to share with you my theory about what makes someone \u201cThe One\u201d for you\u2026and I think you\u2019ll find my approach to choosing the man you spend your life with is far more romantic than \u201clove at first sight.\u201d