This is a Really Gross Question, But You Can Learn From It

Published: Jan. 20, 2017, 10:30 a.m.

As someone who gives love advice for a living, I\u2019ve heard it all. Or so I thought\u2026 until I got this insane email question from a listener. Now let me clarify that the question is gross not in a raunchy way (although there is a sexual component to it; nothing too scandalous)\u2026 but because of the self-centered, transactional nature of the relationship it depicts. At this point you\u2019ll probably tune in because I\u2019ve piqued your curiosity, but I encourage you to listen because there\u2019s a lesson we can all learn here about \u2013 if nothing else \u2013 what NOT to do in a healthy relationship.