The No-Ultimatum Way to Get Him To Commit

Published: Jan. 20, 2016, 10 a.m.

Here\u2019s a little secret about men: More often than not, we want to be in a committed relationship. \xa0We just want to believe that it was our idea in the first place. \xa0That\u2019s why putting pressure on a guy or \u201cselling\u201d him on the idea of exclusivity will only push him away. \xa0In today\u2019s episode I\u2019m going to hand you the exact words to say to a guy to let him know you\u2019re interested in something more serious without sounding like an ultimatum. This allows you to show your standard and send the subtle message that if he doesn\u2019t make up his mind he risks losing you forever. \xa0Chances are, after this talk, HE\u2019LL be the one asking YOU for the commitment. (He\u2019ll only think it\u2019s all his own idea!)