Let\u2019s face it \u2013 we all work too hard to risk wasting an entire, precious Friday night with someone we just met if the date doesn\u2019t go well.\xa0 Allow me to propose the low-pressure, high-value first date: My formula allows you to spend some fun, flirty time with that new guy you\u2019re interested in and you\u2019ll still get to meet up with your girlfriends for a proper night out. You\u2019ll leave on a high note, which is guaranteed to leave him wanting more, and before you know it he\u2019ll be calling (not texting!) for a second date.