As a food and travel influencer, Anela Malik\u2019s social media feeds used to be full of inviting dishes and beautiful vistas. Then, in the spring of 2023, her posts took a turn: Anela announced tearfully to her many followers that she was getting divorced. It was an emotional hit but also a financial one. Anela was suddenly forced to make a major investment in a whole new life. And yet \u2026 it wasn\u2019t all bad. Email us at loveletters@boston.com.