You don\u2019t need to change someone\u2019s perception of you to be valid. Here\u2019s what you can do instead: sit with the discomfort that you\u2019re the villain in someone else\u2019s story, find ways to meet your needs without extracting them from other people, and refuse to give relationship nostalgia more weight than it needs (or say fuck it and shoot your shot\u2014it worked for Sierra and her wife!).\nOur live show has been rescheduled to Friday, 10/21. Get tickets for the in-person show here, and for the livestream here. \nJoin us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!\nSUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com\nFACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod\nINSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod\nTWITTER: @justbreakuppod\nBLIND DATE: Invisiblia - The P Word\nJust Break Up is a production of Du Vide Media. Make sure to check out all of our amazing shows!\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices