Friendship Takes Proximity and Presence | May 28, 2023

Published: May 28, 2023, 9:01 p.m.

Logan Holloman | NextGen Pastor\nRead: 1 Corinthians 16:5-18 (NIV)\nWhat is the biggest barrier for you to get over in making friends?\nFriendship takes proximity and presence.\nGod models for us presence and proximity.\nPaul\u2019s people:- Ephesians 6:21-22- 1 Corinthians 16:5-18- Romans 15:22-16:18- Colossians 4:7-18- Philemon 1:1-3, 22-24\nHow do you make a friend?- Embrace the awkward- Be courageous- Root your identity + value in Jesus\n\u201cIt\u2019s scary to initiate but Jesus was the great initiator\u201d -Jennie Allen\nBut nothing that exciting happened. They sang a few songs and then talked about the Bible for a while. At the end of the meeting, everyone paired off to pray for each other and the pastor asked me what I thought of the group. Then he asked if I would come back. I said I guess, but I wasn\u2019t sure. That was seven years ago. Some of those strangers from the house that first night are now some of my closest friends. It didn\u2019t happen overnight. It took me a long time to feel comfortable. I usually came after the life group had already started and left as soon as it was over. But I was seeing the same people every week and I was telling them about my problems and they were telling me about theirs. Do that for long enough and you become friends. You get to know enough people that way and life group goes from being an obligation to something you look forward to. - Jonathan Tjarks\nWhat\u2019s the cost of not finding a few deep friendships?\nReflection Questions:1) What is the biggest barrier, obstacle, or fear for you to get over in making friends?2) Brian shared last week some numbers around our time and friendship. What are some possible things you might need to say \u201cno\u201d to in order to prioritize friendships?3) Who are one or two people in your life that are already in your presence and proximity who has the potential to become a friend? What\u2019s one step you can take this week towards that?\nNext Steps: Complete the Connect Card to receive more information, have us pray for you, or to ask us any question: http://journeyweb.net/connectcard\nWant to worship through giving and support the ministry of Journey Church: https://journeyweb.net/giveDownload our app: https://journeyweb.net/app Join our Facebook Group to stay connected throughout the week: https://facebook.com/groups/JourneyChurchBozemanGet your children connected to our children's ministry, Base Camp: https://journeyweb.net/childrenOur Student Ministry is for High School and Middle School students: https://journeyweb.net/studentsSubscribe to our YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/JourneyChurchBozemanNotes Page: https://journeyweb.net/sermons/notes/2023.05.28.pdf