Whatever perceptions that I thought about Italian men AND Javanese women are challenged in this interview. This couple lets me know that coming from two sides of the world, in this case: Javanese woman to an Italian man, is really a challenge. But I like their attitude that no matter where you are in this world, you must find a partner that allows you to be yourself. It's nice to be reminded every once in a while. From rosemary seeds to their eldest loving sambal, from a romantic planned proposal to a quick carport proposal, this is the real deal. This is how marriage works.