Wanting to do better when it comes to fighting racism is great\u2014but even with good intentions, asking the Black people in your life to tell you how isn\u2019t the way to start. Elena and Harv talk to author and activist Frederick Joseph about what makes this question frustrating, where to find resources, and how to fill someone\u2019s metaphorical cup. Professor Andrea Davis explains emotional labour, our responsibility to seek to know, and how \u201cdoing better\u201d isn\u2019t a quick and easy process. \n\n\nConnect with our guests below:\nFrederick Joseph IG: @FredTJosephTw: @FredTJoseph\nAndrea Davis: Tw: @Adavis777A\n\nFollow us!\nTwitter: @IQ_Podcast\nInstagram: @IQ_Podcast\n\nFor transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/inappropriate-questions-transcripts-listen-1.6740372