Problem #33: Who should pay for dates? [Part 2 - Ft Jesse]

Published: Dec. 15, 2020, 7:34 a.m.

In a survey on love and finances conducted by Money and SurveyMonkey, a whopping 78% of respondents said they think men should pay for the first date. And, perhaps surprisingly, 85% of men were even more likely than women (at 72%) to think that men should foot the bill as well. Even after the first date, men tend to pick up the majority of expenses and report feeling guilty taking money from women. Should this be the normal dating etiquette??

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Resources:

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How to support BLM: https://www.timeout.com/things-to-do/how-to-support-black-lives-matter

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Black mental health resources: https://twitter.com/testtubeplush/status/1337231680679993344

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Therapy Sources: Primary Care Physician, IG: @Betterhelp, Employee assistance programs and therapyforblackgirls.com

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BetterHelp is free for 1 month not just 1 week specifically with our link: https://www.betterhelp.com/thoughtfulhuman/

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Who should pay for dates: https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2020/02/12/who-should-pay-for-dates-how-chivalry-contributes-to-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=4728c9bb3fa3

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Etiquettes on paying for dates: https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/money-diaries-date-paid-for-dinner

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Charming your date: https://theartofcharm.com/art-of-dating/guy-always-pay/

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Financial dating etiquette: https://www.moneycrashers.com/dating-etiquette-rules-women/

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https://www.mhanational.org/31-tips-boost-your-mental-health

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Guest #1 Details: Jesse (aka Marquis Music Artist)

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About: Singer/Rap Artist with music on various platforms

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Social media: @jesseoldellimusic

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Link: www.linktr.ee/jesseoldellimusic

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Production Notes:

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Produced by Dolapo of the "Terminal 234" podcast

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Edited by Host: Sandra [IG: coitraveler]

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Co-Host #1: Annabelle [IG: msjudy_1028]

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Tentative Co-Host #2: Doyin [IG: msdoyinjay]

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