Do you know that loneliness kills more people than smoking and obesity?
In this episode of HYDRATE, Psychologist Guy Winch takes us deeper into the power of emotional intelligence and why it's intertwined with our physical health. We discuss how to deal with romantic rejection, when loneliness becomes a health risk, and how to raise emotionally intelligent kids.
We're evolutionarily wired to survive and procreate, not to seek happiness. So, it takes great effort to establish deep human connections and be vulnerable, but it can be learned! Guy and I share tips on how to rekindle our relationship (romantic or not) with someone, when to end it, and how to heal from its ending. Take note: you can't fix a relationship by yourself. I know that to be true after trying to save a 13-year marriage on my own.
How do we survive a heartbreak without losing our self-worth?
Guy Winch, Ph.D., is a licensed psychologist, keynote speaker, and author who has published three books, \u201cEmotional First Aid,\u201d \u201cHow to Fix A Broken Heart,\u201d and \u201cThe Squeaky Wheel,\u201d which have been translated into 27 languages. His TED talks on emotional health have been viewed over 26 million times. For the last two decades, Guy has worked with individuals, couples, and families in his private practice in Manhattan.
What we discuss\u2026
2:00 \u2013 What is emotional intelligence?
6:00 \u2013 Relationships depend on these 2 Things
10:00 \u2013 Why emotional health should be taught in school
14:00 \u2013 People who are chronically lonely die sooner
18:00 \u2013 Why do we feel disconnected from our partner or friends?
21:00 \u2013 How to reconnect with important people in your life:
Tip #1: Remember the last good time you had with them.
Tip #2: Take a leap of faith \u2013 REACH OUT.
23:00 \u2013 How can parents raise emotionally intelligent kids?
33:50 \u2013 Tips to dealing with romantic rejections or relationship conflicts:
Tip #1: Accept that you\u2019re not a right match at the right time.
Tip #2: Don't mindread \u2013 ASK what your partner needs.
44:30 \u2013 Why the first stages of relationships are the most crucial
Learn more from Guy Winch:
Website: https://guywinch.com
Instagram: @guywinch
Related Links:
Guy\u2019s Books: https://www.guywinch.com/books/
\u201cDear Therapists\u201d podcast: https://www.guywinch.com/podcast/
Guy\u2019s TED talks: https://www.ted.com/speakers/guy_winch