Are you doing what is expected of\xa0you? Viv Groskop talks to writer Delia Ephron about following other\xa0people's rules. She explains how to blow it and still have a life. She talks about grief, about storytelling, about not having a strong sense of yourself - and about working out how to be true to yourself. It's not important to own the room, she says. It's important to own your own vision. \xa0 You can find out more about Delia on her website, and buy her book Left on Tenth: A Second Chance at Life
A new updated edition of Viv's book, How to Own the Room\xa0is out now.