If you are a romance novelist, the Danish man is not your dream man. He will not write poetry and pursue his beloved to the ends of the Earth. He won't send flowers, he won't buy chocolates. He won't even help carry packages.\xa0
That said, if you\u2019re a feminist, a Danish man IS your dream man.\xa0He will cook and help with the housework, and spend time with the kids. \xa0He'll respect your opinion, and he won't\xa0force himself on you.\xa0In fact, you may have to force yourself on him.\xa0 But if you do, he\u2019ll usually be really grateful.