Lyn explores the topic of why we choose the wrong relationships. Joined by guest Harris Eddie Hill, a childhood trauma coach, they delve into the subject of childhood trauma and how it influences our relationship choices.
\nHarris shares a personal journey of healing from trauma and explains the importance of emotional experiences in processing any trauma, and together, Lyn and Harris discuss the impact of childhood patterns on adult relationships and the need for self-awareness and education so we can break free from any unhealthy dynamics.\xa0
\nKEY TAKEAWAYS
\nBEST MOMENTS
\n"The number one cause of almost everybody's issues or issues that made it difficult for them to manage their health, always came back to childhood trauma."\xa0
\n"Trauma in the brain is basically a memory or an experience or a group of experiences that the memory never processed and filed away and that's why when it's triggered it feels like it's in the present and it's happening to us now."\xa0
\n"I realised that actually I was putting up with the same things that my mum put up with. I overvalued my ability to be calm, to not judge, to not react, which made me way too submissive, or subservient"
\n"Don't give up, don't blame yourself. There's absolutely something you can do about this with guidance from somebody else, like myself. It can absolutely get easier and you can begin to enjoy it and have nice relationships."
\nVALUABLE RESOURCES
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Spotify
Stitcher\xa0
ABOUT THE GUEST -\xa0Harris Eddie Hill - Childhood Trauma Coach
\nHarris Eddie Hill (they/them) is an out-and-proud nonbinary podcaster, best-selling author, coach and founder of the Centre for Childhood Trauma Healing; a platform dedicated to supporting neurodivergent, queer or highly empathic adults to overcome their childhood trauma and begin to thrive.
\nShortlisted for the Positive Impact and Sustainability Speaker of the Year at the Speaker Awards, Harris is passionate about demystifying healing and helping people to connect to their own ability to heal. Clients take back their power from a medical system that doesn\u2019t always offer tangible solutions and doesn\u2019t always educate clients on their ability to heal.
\nHarris has survived and overcome trauma, unaccepting family members, cancer, abusive relationships, physical paralysis and mental health challenges, yet has found their way to emotional freedom and is now passing that power forward.
\nWebsite - https://www.mxharrishill.com
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/harriseddiehill
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mxharrishill
Twitter - https://www.twitter.com/mxharrishill
TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@mxharrishill
YouTube - https://youtube.com/@mxharrishill
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/mxharrishill
ABOUT THE HOST
\nLyn Smith \u2013 (The Queen of HEARTS) \u2013 Love, Dating & Relationship Expert
\nLyn\u2019s personal story is a very inspirational and harrowing one of how she went from having unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships with men (on the back of several serious traumatic sexual assaults in her teens) to now being in a soul fulfilling relationship which makes her feel alive, is full of passion and gives her inner peace.
\nShe has a proven track record as a Love Solutions - Relationship Expert / Trainer / Inspirational Speaker and Best-Selling Author based upon her own vast personal research, experiential learning and training with the world\u2019s leading industry experts.
\nUnderstanding the polarisation of masculine & feminine energy resulted in her creating massive attraction and a passionate, intimate, fulfilling relationship \u2013 that inspired her to design & present her own course programmes to share these break-through relationship techniques with women across the globe.
\nHEARTS Entwined is a world-class service based on care and understanding, which is committed to providing step-by-step high-value love, dating and relationship solutions.
\nLyn makes a difference by helping you make a difference; she has a vision of contributing back on a global scale \u2013 to create a lasting legacy of safety, dignity and opportunity for children and women who have survived rape, abuse and severe trauma as a result of war crimes and sex trafficking \u2013 through the setting up of worldwide \u2013 \u2018you can heal your life\u2019 centres.
CONTACT METHOD
lyn@hearts-entwined.com