Seek Solutions or Make Excuses

Published: April 19, 2018, 10:52 p.m.

The easiest thing to do on earth is to whine, complain, and make excuses. Most complaints start with, \u201cWhy do you always \u2026\u201d or \u201cWhy can\u2019t you ever \u2026\u201d or \u201cYou drive me crazy every time you \u2026\u201d And it can quickly get real nasty.

What good does it do to moan and make excuses? Not much. Misery is the only consequence of whining and complaining.

In this podcast, Dr. Ross says, \u201cThe day you become a problem solver is the day you become an adult. Three-year-olds whine and make excuses. Adults see problems and solve them.\u201d

\xa0A healthy marriage seeks solutions to problems while a hurting marriage whines and makes excuses. Which do you have? Which do you want?

The podcast is 9 minutes long.