If you and your mate use tit-for-tat scorekeeping, someone will always underperform while the other goes the extra mile.
In this Podcast, Dr. Ross discusses how the practice of keeping a running record of your partner\u2019s behaviors and contributions to your marital happiness makes everything a contest \u2013 and in a contest, someone always loses.
He encourages you to foster a spirit of love and generosity. He says, \u201cIf there\u2019s to be a contest in marriage, let it be the act of out giving the other.\u201d The podcast is approximately 10 min. For more, visit www.HeartfeltMarriage.com.