Toxic Masculinity.\xa0 That's a phrase that's been almost everywhere recently, dontcha think?\xa0 The airing of the controversial Gillette commercial last month challenged men's and boys' behavior in our society by asking viewers to think a bit harder about the tagline "the best a man can get."\n\xa0\nBut what the hell IS "masculinity" actually, especially as it relates to dating?\xa0 What is it that attracts (or repels) women (and men) to men?\xa0 On today's queer episode Jeanette interviews Shoshanna, who is attracted to both men and women, about what she looks for in both genders.\xa0 If you're curious to know each of them acts/ reacts differently in our online dating culture, you'll enjoy hearing Shoshanna's perspective on dating both.\xa0 As we get clearer on defining masculine behavior, we also weigh in with Ari, a gay man and self-ascribed member of the "Gaytriarchy", to talk about his struggles with men in the app and social media climate. \xa0\n\xa0\nIf you curious about what how the idea of masculinity contributes to our laws of attraction, listen in to this super interesting exploration.\xa0 Enjoy!