You know that cliche Hallmark fairy\xa0tale story where the big, successful city girl goes home to her parents house in small town America for a short time and she falls in love with the unexpectedly hot single guy that runs the bike or handyman shop and she has to decide between\xa0returning to her (lonely) big city life or return to her roots in this small suburban town?\xa0 Know anyone that happened to in the pandemic?\n\xa0\nYeah, neither do we.\xa0 Our guest Zofia (and many others) went home and simply took a break from dating altogether.\xa0 Why bother dating when you know you're gonna be leaving soon?\xa0 Why date in a country (or town) that you don't want to ultimately settle or live in?\n\xa0\nTaking that a step further - if you don't want to date in the place that you're currently in, why not set your filters to only show you people from the place you want to live in the future? Zofia and I discuss whether or not that would actually work (on both sides) and the ethical consequences of that.\xa0 But what about the world where people are matching with people in other countries that they then have no intention of ever meeting?\xa0 And is there a difference in how men respond to this and where women stand on this?\xa0 We ask our VOP Renard to chime in, and his answer may (or may not) surprise you. :)