#146 Sex is a Learnable Skill | Stirling Cooper's Playbook on Dating and Modern Relationships

Published: Sept. 12, 2024, 3:31 p.m.

In this episode of Hart2Heart with host Dr. Mike Hart sits down with Stirling Cooper, an Award Winning Adult film Star and sex coach to thousands of men. Stirling discusses his transition away from the adult industry and how his focus shifted to helping young men improve their dating lives, addressing problems like porn addiction and erectile dysfunction. They dive deep into the effects of modern-day pornography on men\u2019s mental and physical health, the rise of platforms like OnlyFans, and the challenges both men and women face in today\u2019s dating landscape. Stirling also shares advice on building confidence, handling rejection, and becoming better in relationships, with practical tips on navigating social media for dating.

Guest Bio and Links:

Stirling Cooper is a retired adult film star who has transitioned into coaching men on improving their dating lives and sexual health. After leaving the adult film industry, Stirling has become an advocate for men\u2019s health, emphasizing the negative impacts of pornography and the importance of physical and psychological well-being.

Listeners can learn more about Stirling Cooper at his website, on IG @stirlingcooper and on YouTube @stirlingcooper

Resources:

The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene

5 Subtle Mistakes Men Make In The Bedroom and How To Fix Them

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Show Notes:

  • (0:00) Welcome back to the Hart2Heart Podcast with Dr. Mike Hart\xa0\xa0\xa0

  • (0:15) Dr. Hart introduces Stirling Cooper to the listeners

  • (0:30) Stirlings background

  • (2:00) The negative impact of pornography

  • (5:00) Stirling's mission to correct pornography's effects

  • (9:30) The rise of OnlyFans and its impact on women

  • (11:00) The surprising reality - most OnlyFans creators make just $200/month

  • (15:30) Stirling discusses how OnlyFans imprints negatively on women\u2019s view of men

  • (21:00) The shift from real-life interactions to digital communication in dating

  • (25:30) Dating apps and social media\u2019s influence on modern dating

  • (27:00) Building confidence through random compliments

  • (31:00) Stirling\u2019s practical dating tips for young men

  • (32:30) Pre selection and social proof

  • (35:00) How to utilize Instagram for dating and social proof

  • (41:00) The value of hiring a photographer to convey your life on social media\xa0

  • (50:30) Stirling\u2019s advice on leading during a first date

  • (54:00) The art of the first date

  • (59:00) Attractive vs. unattractive hobbies

  • (1:02:00) How young men view modern dating and nihilism

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Dr. Mike Hart is a Cannabis Physician and Lifestyle Strategist. In April 2014, Dr. Hart became the first physician in London, Ontario to open a cannabis clinic. While Dr. Hart continues to treat patients at his clinic, his primary focus has shifted to correcting the medical cannabis educational gap that exists in the medical community.\xa0

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