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Published: July 10, 2015, 12:08 a.m.

Jana talks with Rebecca Hobbs-Lawrence, a staff member at The Dougy Center, about ways to support children who experience the death of a brother or sister. The loss of a child shatters assumptions parents hold regarding their role as protector and their beliefs about the natural order of children outliving their parents. A child\u2019s death can cause tremendous upheaval in families as a parent\u2019s overwhelming grief pulls them away from their surviving children, often leaving siblings alone to deal with their own grief. Children and teen siblings grieve a unique relationship, one of friend and foe, a companion that will travel alongside in life\u2019s adventures. After a sibling death, children and teens may question their own importance, wondering, \u201cAm I not enough?\u201d \xa0

\xa0 Suggestions for supporting a grieving sibling:

1. Grieve together as a family, allowing space for the individual expression of grief.
2. Celebrate together, choosing important days and rituals of remembrance.
3. Talk with each other about anything and everything.
4. Be together. It\u2019s easy for parents or kids to isolate from each other. Try to find things to do together.
5. Seek out support.

For additional suggestions, check out our Tip Sheet about siblings. \xa0