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Published: Oct. 14, 2021, 2:54 p.m.

Allie runs a pet sitting business in her day to day. In this interview, Allie talks about being sexually abused my members of her family, seeing her sister be murdered, living in an orphanage in Kazakhstan, being adopted to the US, having a mom who was addicted to drugs and alcohol, and going to treatment for suicidal ideations.

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I want to thank Allie for her being willing to open on so many tough aspects of her life in the effort to help anyone who today is in a position she was previously in.

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Allie's Email: alyanajoycat@gmail.com

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Grateful Living Info:

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My Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aroy81547/?...

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To Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Hn4ttt...

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To Listen on Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...

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YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Bo...

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Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/gratefulliving4

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Time Stamps:

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0:00 Introduction

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0:31 Allie's childhood

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1:42 Witnessing her brother die by poisoning

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4:00 Having to hunt for food in Kazakhstan

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5:45 Being her little brother's care taker at 4

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6:24 Her mom's boyfriend touching her

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7:45 Not being fed properly

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9:07 Witnessing her sister's murder

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10:27 Going to an orphanage

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14:05 Orphanage operations

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15:42 When a man at the orphanage tried to rape Allie

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16:28 Hearing her friend Katya get rapped at age 7 by a 16 year old guy

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17:20 Weird labor punishments by the orphanage

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19:53 When a family showed interest in adopting her

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24:02 Coming to the US

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25:56 Trying to Find Her Brother

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28:21 Dealing with mood swings as a teenager

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31:00 Interactions with adopted mom

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34:40 Adopted Mom struggling with drugs

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36:34 How Allie Developed an Eating Disorder

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38:21 How Allie Started Cutting Herself

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41:16 Being Touched by Her Adopted Mom's Boyfriend

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42:00 Attempting Suicide by taking Tylenol Pills

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46:30 Going to McLean Hospital in Massachusetts

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49:00 Seeing others who were doing worse than her

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50:12 Meeting Meg Durand

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51:33 Learning to cry because of Meg

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52:45 Moving to Board School in NY

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54:00 Allie's relationship with an actor

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56:50 Allie's first boyfriend getting caught stealing from her family

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59:00 Abusive incident with first boyfriend

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1:01:34 Being Introduced to cocaine

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1:03:30 Going to rehab/treatment for drug addiction

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1:05:30 Getting involved with owner of rehab center

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1:07:45 Picking up cigarette habit

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1:09:09 How she kept up with Meg throughout her time in rehab

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1:10:30 Finding Out Meg Passed

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1:12:30 Incident with Adopted Mom Selling Allie's Belongings

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1:16:00 Living with Meg's family during a tough time

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1:18:53 Going to Rehab Again

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1:21:46 Getting into the cat sitting business

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1:23:09 Running a successful business

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1:24:00 Getting her mental health to a better place

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1:25:55 Where do you think your mental health is today?

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1:27:49 How should orphanages be run better?

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1:30:40 What would you tell little Allie?

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1:32:59 If your parents don't listen to you about your sexual abuse

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1:35:35 Advice on parents who are drunk/high often

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1:37:20 Advice to someone whose cutting

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1:40:40 Advice to someone with an eating disorder

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1:42:00 Advice to someone being sexual abused by a family member

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1:45:50 Who could use going to a treatment center?

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1:51:00 Suggestions for someone whose struggling to cry because their numb

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1:53:40 Someone whose struggling with addiction

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1:55:45 Entering relationships having been through so much trauma

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1:57:55 DBT Therapy

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2:00:40 If you're struggling to see the positive

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2:03:38 Advice for someone whose suicidal