How To Deepen Faith From A Christian Perspective During Fertility Journey

Published: Nov. 5, 2021, 7 a.m.

Tiffany Jo Baker joins us as we're digging into deepening your Christian faith during the fertility journey.

Welcome to day #4 of our series on faith and fertility.

When we are faced with a fertility diagnosis such as low AMH, high FSH, premature ovarian insufficiency, or diminished ovarian we may feel shocked, hopeless, lost, and overwhelmed.

We may even question our body\u2019s ability to procreate.

Today I\u2019ll be discussing how our faith can help us during our fertility journey.

Because we can change our diet, improve our sleep, do all the latest tests to optimize our fertility, but it is equally important to work on our mindset and the belief that we are parents the moment we begin trying to conceive.

Our Fab Fertile Method includes a mind, body spirit approach to fertility. All steps are necessary \u2013 not all at once \u2013 but layered in a personalized approach.

Today I\u2019m excited to welcome Tiffany Jo Baker. Tiffany Jo is part of my team at Fab Fertile. Tiffany Jo is a surrogate mom who has carried five babies for three families dealing with infertility and a wife of 21+ years to an extreme outdoorsman. She is a certified life, relationship, and corporate communication coach with a Master's Degree in Professional Counseling and over 20 years of marriage and family ministry experience.

In this episode you\u2019ll learn:

1) How to deepen our connection to God during the fertility journey from an Islamic perspective

2) What to do if someone says it\u2019s God\u2019s plan, or God\u2019s revenge during the fertility journey

3) How does scripture help during the stages of grief

4) The rules around the Christian faith and how this can impact us (i.e. may not be able to utilize assisted reproduce technology)

5) How to make churches welcoming to a couple who is trying to conceive as there are many triggers (i.e. families, children, and pregnant bellies)

6) How serving others can help us when we are in the middle of struggle

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Apply here to work with us - https://bit.ly/getpregnantpodcast During our call we\u2019ll be discussing what you have tried so far and where you\u2019ve faced challenges.

This can feel stressful but is designed to help us get to the root cause of your fertility issues and will help me to give you the best possible action plan at the end of the call.

However, to reassure you \u2013 on this call we won\u2019t be digging into the trauma associated with infertility/miscarriage/loss \u2013 rather we are focused on solutions and an ACTION PLAN as to how our Fab Fertile Method can help you get pregnant naturally.

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TIMESTAMPS:

05:06- INTRO TO TODAY\u2019S EPISODE AND TIFFANY JO BAKER\u2019S BIO

06:05- TIFFANY JO BAKER\u2019S PERSONAL STORY OF BECOMING A SURROGATE MOM

07:52- HOW CAN WE DEEPEN OUR FAITH DURING THE FERTILITY JOURNEY?

Building a relationship with God and reframing how we view God

Being around people who hold our same values

09:46- REFRAMING OUR JOURNEY AND NOT SEEING IT AS A PUNISHMENT

Being aware of how we view God (seeing mercy)--\u201cIt\u2019s okay if we are broken to go to Him.\u201d

What research shows about how we view God--\u201cThe more loving the relationship is, the better the outcomes mentally and physically we will have.\u201d

12:10- IS THIS GOD\u2019S PLAN OR WRATH?

Couple of tips dealing with the Christian cliches

\u201cWhat is God saying to YOU about this journey?\u201d

Looking back and understanding the \u201cwhy\u201d

\u201cGod doesn't cause all things but he uses all things.\u201d

15:00- DO ALL THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON?

Seeing the big picture in our lives- seeing God as a \u201cgood\u201d God

16:15- HOW CAN WE USE SCRIPTURE TO HELP WITH THE STAGES OF GRIEF?

\u201cProblems can come with the way we handle tough emotions\u201d

\u201cRenewing your mind\u201d and being in scripture

\u201cCrisis reveals what is in us.\u201d and deciding what you believe

20:13- NAVIGATING THE TRIGGERS FOUND IN YOUR COMMUNITY\xa0

Being cautious to not self-isolate and what studies are showing about church attendance

25:30- WHAT ABOUT RULES AROUND FAITH? HOW CAN THAT ADD CHALLENGES?

Understanding difference in denominations

25:25- HOW DO WE TURN TOWARD OUR PARTNER DURING THIS AND NOT AWAY?

Understanding what your spouse brings to the table and being a \u201cwe\u201d couple

28:38- WHAT ABOUT THE EMPHASIS ON SERVICE?

\u201cServing others is a part of that keep on living piece\u201d

30:15- FAVORITE RESOURCES AND WHERE YOU CAN CONNECT WITH JO

31:33- FINAL THOUGHTS

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