The great writer Gabriel Garcia Marquez once observed: \u201cEveryone has three lives: a public life, a private life, and a secret life.\u201d
\nI learned of this quote in the forward to a fascinating book about secrets. Written by noted American Jewish author Letty Cottin Pogrebin, the book is entitled Shanda: A Memoir of Shame and Secrecy. Pogrebin talks about how deeply held, and deeply embarrassing, secrets were part of her family\u2019s culture.