Have you ever talked to a funeral director? Do you know the right things to say when planning a service for a loved one lost? If you aren\u2019t sure how to talk to a funeral director while you\u2019re grieving, then it could add tension to an already stressful time.
A funeral director has the experience and the training necessary to help you plan a memorial or funeral service for someone who has passed away. Communicating with this person can be difficult if you are grieving.
If you want to know more about how to talk to a funeral director, then listen to this episode of Forever in their Hearts, where host Erik Reynolds talks with Valerie Martell, Director of Operations for Martin Brothers Funeral Services who offers tips and suggestions on the topic.
Knowing how and when to best talk to a funeral director has a lot of benefits for those planning a memorial or funeral service. This interview is a chance to learn communication tips now so that you\u2019re prepared should the unthinkable occur.
How to Communicate at the Funeral Home
Valerie kicks off the episode by diving straight into the topic and sharing some basic tips. Her role as funeral director for Martin Brothers has given her a lot of experience in working with families.
Valerie\u2019s first tip is something you can do before you even get to the funeral parlor, followed by suggestions about the best time to meet with the director..
If you think this information does not pertain to you, then remember that tragedy could strike at any time. Even if you cannot use the information now, there may be someone else you know who does need it.
What the Funeral Director Needs from You
Next Valerie turns to the topic of things that a funeral director would need from you, and some of the things he or she may discuss. She also answers these related questions:
- Why does the funeral director ask so many questions about the deceased?
- What do I need to tell the funeral director when planning a service?
- Is it okay to call the funeral home if I remember something after our meeting?
Now ask yourself these two questions: Could I use some help communicating with your funeral director? Do I want to know more about planning a funeral for myself or a loved one?
If you answered \u201cYes\u201d to either or both questions, then it is time to arrange a meeting with your local Vancouver funeral director to get more information.
What if You Have General Questions but Nobody Has Died?
Then Valerie explains the funeral home is working for you and your loved ones. She reminds that no question is silly or too small, so you should not hesitate to ask whatever is on your mind.
She goes on to explain that sometimes you might have questions, but none of your loved ones has died. This is a common occurrence and she gives some advice for what you can do if it happens to you.
When you have questions about funeral planning, or about pre-planning your own funeral, do you know how to communicate with a funeral director? What\u2019s stopping you from learning what Martin Brothers in Vancouver has to offer?
The episode wraps up with Valerie sharing some final thoughts about things you can do to better communicate with the director of a funeral parlor.
Are You Ready to Communicate?
Do you want tips for successfully communicating with your funeral director? Are you curious about what you can do to ease the funeral planning process? Listen to the entire podcast now and then share your comments in the space below where we can discuss them together.
Martin Brothers Funeral Services has more than 100 years of experience in providing thoughtful, dedicated services to families dealing with loss. If you are ready to take care of funeral pre-arrangements, have additional questions about their services, or are dealing with a loss, please contact them at their Vancouver office.
Martin Brothers Funeral Services
Vancouver: Funeral Services Centre
3398 Dunbar Street
Vancouver, BC Canada V6S 2C1
Telephone Number: 778.330.7799
Toll Free Number: 1.800.382.2901
Fax Number: 778.330.7633
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