Do you feel stuck in the negative cycle? What's not working?\n Couples usually understand what\u2019s not working, but not what they could do differently. It is difficult for pursuers to understand where their withdrawer partner is coming from... and vice versa.\n But you are not helpless victims to the negative cycle! There are things you can do; You can control own your new moves. You can learn new ways to approach your partner that recognizes their needs.\n In this week's episode, Laurie and George teach you new moves\u2014 for both pursuers and withdrawers!\xa0\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices