280: My Partner Wont Go DownHow Do We Go On?

Published: April 30, 2021, midnight

Maybe you or your partner is uninterested in or uncomfortable with certain acts, such as oral sex.\xa0 Both men and women can resist oral sex. What\u2019s holding them back? The turn off could be anything: smell, taste, self-consciousness, discomfort, cleanliness, or fear of failure. But most of these concerns can be mitigated by change!\xa0\n However, some things may be off limits entirely and we have to understand and respect our partner\u2019s boundaries\u2026 How do we grieve for sex acts that we want but just aren\u2019t on the table for our partners?\nLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices