Bhagavad Gita Ch 5 - 20 - 25
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\nVivek's overview of Paramartha Ashram trip
\nTheory of marginal utility of getting happiness
\nSpiritual happiness - one will get back once we taste it. One will get back because the happiness experienced is multiplied instead of diminshing utility.
\nDesire is like an avalanche. Anything that comes in between you and desire means we become angry.
\nIf we reduce expectations, then the influence desires fade away
\nIn the depths of silence, the voice of the Lord is heard.
\nIs marginal returns applicable for relationships as well?
\nGaur Gopal Das's CAR theory - if something is going right or wrong, Change what you can; Avoid being in company of people that are toxic; Rise above even if you cannot do anything.
\nOne should respect oneself in this journey of self-realization.
\nThe more one attaches to anything, one suffers more. Attachment not required - but do your duty.
\nChildren are born through us, and not to us.
\nWe can manifest what we want in relationships. There is no other.
\nGenuine curiosity in the other helps to manage.
\nIf we want to have peace:
\n- try to have less than more
\n- seek to be last rather than first
\n- seek to do will of others, rather than your own
\n- in all things recognize and learn to accept the will of God
\n"I want peace": I is ego, want is desire. Remove ego & desire and you will get peace.
\nDesire & expectation - what's the relationship
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