Are you feeling stuck trying to be \u201cgood\u201d for everyone else? In today\u2019s episode, Allie Casazza shares how she broke free from the restrictive \u201cgood girl\u201d mindset and people pleasing tendencies that were holding her back, and how you can do the same. We dive into the emotional and physical impact of hiding your true self, and how you can start showing up as the most empowered version of you. She shares how to overcome societal expectations, heal past trauma, and how releasing those old identities allows you to rebuild your life, relationships, and business. If you\u2019ve ever wondered how to rise stronger after tearing down old identities, don\u2019t miss Allie\u2019s \u201cBecoming Her Collective,\u201d to learn how to start embodying the woman you\u2019re meant to be.\n\nCheck out our Sponsors:\nQuince - Go to Quince.com/earn for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.\nBetterHelp - Get 10% off your first month at BetterHelp.com/LORI today.\nHelloFresh - Get FREE breakfast for life at HelloFresh.com/freeearn.\nFound - Try Found for free at Found.com/EARN.\n\nHIGHLIGHTS\n00:00 How growing up in a restrictive religious environment shaped Allie\u2019s identity.\n07:45 The physical, mental, and emotional toll of suppressing your true self.\n14:00 What made you decide to stop living the life others expected of you?\n18:30 What it looks like to rebuild your life after dropping the facade.\n30:00 Ways to set healthy boundaries.\n34:30 Tools to rediscover who you are after big changes in your life.\n39:30 Different stages to a healthier balance and sense of self.\n43:00 What it looks like when you're rebuilding your relationships.\n47:15 Advice to parents on how to reassure their children after life changes.\n49:30 The program that empowers you to step into your highest self.\n\nRESOURCES\nCheck out the BONUS CONTENT HERE!\nJournal as your future self - get the free scripts!\nJoin Allie\u2019s Becoming Her Collective HERE\n\nGet gl\u014dci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off!\nText DAILY to 310-496-8363 for daily manifesting affirmations, journal prompts, and motivation.\nSign up for GrowthDay - https://www.growthday.com/lori?via=harder\nWatch on YouTube - @LoriHarder\nMy book: A Tribe Called Bliss\n\nFOLLOW\nFollow Allie: @allie_thatsme\nFollow me: @loriharder\nFollow Earn Your Happy: @earnyourhappy\nFollow gl\u014dci: @getgloci\nGirlfriends & Business: @girlfriendsandbusiness