258: How to Give Yourself What You Need The Most

Published: Aug. 2, 2018, 8 a.m.

The other night I went to a Soul Cycle class despite the voice inside my head that told me I didn\u2019t want to go and didn\u2019t have the energy to move my legs that fast (can you relate?). But after coming off of my three-week vacation, I was struggling. My re-entry back into \u201creality\u201d has been tough.\n \xa0\n Thankfully my Soul Cycle instructor gave me the wake-up call (or question) that led to a shift.\n \xa0\n \u201cWhat is a gift you could give yourself right now that would make your day or life better?\u201d\n \xa0\n I actually surprised myself with the answer\u2026an attitude adjustment. Whoa, seems a bit harsh, huh? But here\u2019s the thing. Now is not the time to take it easy on myself. I\u2019ve still got a lot of things I want to do. And one of those things, was getting back into the groove with my podcast interviews.\n \xa0\n I had a ton of resistance around my scheduled interviews this week, but once I remembered how much I enjoy talking with such incredible humans, I changed my tune.\n \xa0\n \u201cSitting in resistance is a choice.\u201d\n \xa0\n Sitting in resistance was not serving me. It was time to lean in and start asking myself questions instead. What would it look and feel like if I was back in the groove of things? What if I let go and enjoyed it? What would that look like?\n \xa0\n \u201cIf it\u2019s something you\u2019re choosing to have on your plate because you want it there, you can let go of the resistance.\u201d\n \xa0\n I realize that letting go can be hard and it takes a lot of thought. Trust me, that has been me for the last week. But just start small by asking questions \u2013 don\u2019t force it. You\u2019ll find that once you start envisioning all the good things, your energy will increase, too. Resistance, while sometimes helpful, only sucks your energy away. Let\u2019s do the opposite by ramping up your energy instead and watch as more shows up.\n \xa0\n I hope this message prompts you to take a moment today to figure out what you need the most, move through resistance and lean in.\xa0\n --\n In This Episode Lori talks about:\n \xa0\n Discovering what you really need to give yourself\n Why Lori gave herself an attitude adjustment\n Letting go of resistance and leaning in\n \xa0\n Resources:\n \xa0\n Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori\u2019s book tour and join the world\u2019s biggest tribe book club\n \xa0\n A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder\n Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com\n \xa0\n Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/\n \xa0\n Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.