163: How to be a Highly Successful COUPLE with Chris Harder

Published: Sept. 4, 2017, 7:35 p.m.

I am so excited to have my husband, Chris, on again! We\u2019ve been asked a lot of questions such as: how do we work together day in and day out? How do we live our lives and what makes us happy? These conversations are so much fun for us and we love sharing the highs and lows of our lives so far.\n As you\u2019ll soon realize, while we have our \u201cdream\u201d lives now, it didn\u2019t start out that way. Let\u2019s just say I didn\u2019t even want to give Chris the time of day when we first met! We obviously worked things out there, but be sure to listen in as we share some of our other ups, downs and lesson-learning moments in our lives.\n This episode is jam-packed with information about the fundamentals of our success and happiness (and so much in between) and we hope you\u2019re able to leave with some helpful takeaways. Please feel free to let us know what other questions you have for us! We look forward to continuing our conversation on another future episode. Happy listening! --\n In This Episode We Talk about: \u2022 Where Chris and Lori started from and what their daily routine is\n \u2022 Working through times of unfulfillment\n \u2022 If there\u2019s a right time to call your partner out when you know they have a larger calling they\u2019re not doing anything about\n \u2022 How small decisions are HUGE in the long run\n \u2022 Why it\u2019s so important to be open and connect with more people\n \u2022 How to deal with people who are cutting you down or holding you back\n \u2022 The definition of positive propaganda and why you need it to support your goals\n \u2022 The benefits of having a healthy habits routine\n \u2022 How Chris and Lori incorporate meditation and visualization into their daily lives\n \u2022 How to effectively communicate with your spouse or partner\n \u2022 Why it\u2019s so important to find self-development activities that you enjoy\n \u2022 What to do if your spouse/partner isn\u2019t into self-development\n \u2022 And so much more\u2026\n Quotes: \u201cBe more open and less attached than you are to the things you\u2019re so attached to.\u201d\n \u201cFind positive propaganda to support where you want to go and to reinforce your beliefs.\u201d\n \u201cEven if it doesn\u2019t feel like it, the timing is perfect.\u201d\n \u201cYou will always find what you\u2019re looking for.\u201d\n \u201cWe are constantly chipping away at the things that will make us happy and productive in the long run \u2013 even when we don\u2019t feel like it.\u201d\n \u201cOur routine-driven life has absolutely 10x\u2019d all areas of our lives.\u201d\n \u201cI\u2019m happier, healthier, wealthier and more fit than I was yesterday.\u201d\n \u201cBy taking inventory of all the good stuff in my life, I\u2019m dictating the thoughts that will dictate my day instead of letting my day dictate my thoughts.\u201d\n \u201cIf you\u2019re not doing self-development in a modality that you like, then you absolutely won\u2019t do it.\u201d\n \u201cYou set the pace for your relationship.\u201d\n \u201cYou are responsible for your own happiness.\u201d\n \u201cFind joy in the journey.\u201d\n \u201cFind your happiness in the pursuit every day.\u201d --\n \u201cFind your happiness in the pursuit every day.\u201d\n --\n Resources: Previous episodes with Chris:\n Ep. 93 \u2013 https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/93-six-steps-we-take-to-achieve-our-goals-my-husband/id1087926635?i=1000379426412&mt=2\n Ep. 100 \u2013 https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/100-relationship-business-q-my-husband-chris-harder/id1087926635?i=1000380293825&mt=2\n Ep. 128 \u2013 https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/128-broke-mindset-to-mulit-millionaire-mindset-chris/id1087926635?i=1000384953178&mt=2\n \n For the Love of Money podcast with Chris Harder: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/for-love-money-podcast-business-philanthropy-entrepreneur/id1215523596?mt=2\n FortheLoveofMoney.com\n IG: @chriswharder\n FB: facebook.com/chriswharder\n The Bliss Project\n Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Ecker\n Checkout my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.