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Is your spouse a financial bully?\xa0

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Does your partner require you to tell them about all of your purchases?\xa0

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Do they ever threaten to cut you off from the money or discourage you from furthering your career or making more money?\xa0

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Do they make poor decisions involving your credit, causing harm to your credit score?\xa0

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If you answered YES to any of the above, then this episode is a MUST listen. I've brought back one of my favorite attorneys/ CDFA, Lisa Zeiderman, to give us her insight on the topic of financial bullies and how to spot them.\xa0

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Lisa Zeiderman is Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP. A Matrimonial Attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, she regularly handles complex financial and custody divorce matters for high net worth individuals. She also authors a well-read blog on Psychology Today called "Legal Matters," covering the intersection of mental health, divorce, and child custody. Named a 2019 10 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Family Law Attorneys, Ms. Zeiderman is also a founding member of the American Academy of Certified Financial Litigators and a member of the panel for Attorneys for Children.

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To find more on Lisa and to hire her in the NY area: LISA ZEIDERMAN WEBSITE

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Show notes:

[1:44] Who is Lisa Zeiderman?

[2:29] What is financial bullying, and how does it start?

[9:58] What can you do when it starts happening?

[12:18] Reassessing your relationship with your spouse

[15:29] Check out this excellent parenting tool: Soberlink (https://www.soberlink.com/partners/drr)

[16:33] It goes on undetected

[18:33] Prenups and postnups

[21:47] Savvy Ladies and the importance of financial literacy

[24:47] Asking for a prenup

[26:45] Financial abuse is still abuse

[29:16] Red flag: When account statements do not come home

[29:53] Red flag: When you\u2019re unable to access accounts, and there are large amount transfers