Expectations vs Agreements

Published: April 28, 2021, 7 a.m.

Have you ever had an expectation of someone to do something and they didn\u2019t follow through?\xa0 Maybe someone had an expectation of you.\xa0 It led to blame, judgement, disagreement, and ultimately a fight?\xa0 Maybe you had an expectation of yourself and things didn\u2019t quite turn out the way you wanted them and it lead to guilt, shame, or the feeling of failure.\xa0\xa0

Expectations are both good and bad. In regards to relationships, expectations in relationships can be toxic and ruin peoples chance with a good relationship, and lead to unhappiness, misery, and a life of disappointment.\xa0

We have 2 choices in relation to how we interact with others people: Create an expectation or create an agreement.\xa0

Reference:

Coach and Author Steve Chandler\u2019s take on how we invite disappointment into our lives by creating uncommunicated expectations on others.\xa0 https://youtu.be/Ajz5ddoL_Ww

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