Podcasts Education Self-Improvement Crystal Paine Show 188. Good Boundaries and Goodbyes (with Lysa TerKeurst)

188. Good Boundaries and Goodbyes (with Lysa TerKeurst)

Published: Nov. 29, 2022, 1 p.m.

Today\u2019s guest on The Crystal Paine Show is someone who has\xa0been on the show before and you all loved that episode.\xa0So when the opportunity came up to have her back on the show one more time, I jumped on it, especially when I saw the title of her new book,\xa0Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are!

In this episode, Lysa TerKeurst discusses where she gets her ideas for her books, primarily her struggles and what they show her she needs to improve and work on. She also elaborates on what the word\xa0boundaries\xa0means to her and how she has learned what boundaries are from the Bible, the difference between being selfish and demonstrating self-control, how boundaries help prevent unpleasant extremes and what to do if those extremes take place anyway, and so much more.

I am so appreciative of Lysa for her friendship, for being on the show, and for having written this new book. If you are someone who struggles with setting boundaries with people and/or feel like you\u2019re being selfish if and when you do, then I strongly recommend that you pick up a copy!

In This Episode

[00:35] \u2013 I am so honored to have a\xa0repeat guest\xa0today, Lysa TerKeurst!

[03:45] \u2013 What does the word \u201cboundaries\u201d mean to Lysa?

[06:28] \u2013 Lysa shares how to implement responsibility.

[07:56] \u2013 How does Lysa determine someone\u2019s responsibility level?

[10:48] \u2013 Lysa explains what can happen as a result of no boundaries.

[13:41] \u2013 How do we set boundaries while still serving and helping others?

[14:34] \u2013 Lysa points out the difference between selfishness and self-control.

[18:00] \u2013 How do we set boundaries without walking away from people we love?

[20:15] \u2013 What do boundaries look like if we live with the person?

[22:52] \u2013 What if you set a boundary with someone and they respond negatively?

[25:27] \u2013 Lysa explains how trying to control someone leads to us feeling trapped.

[30:43] \u2013 Lysa\u2019s insight applies to\xa0all\xa0of the relationships in our lives.

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