What are the things you are competent and interested in but constitutionally not disposed to engage with? And how do we deal with not ever being in control? [21:40]\xa0This week, Joey, Aaron, and Jess talk about jazz piano, The Trifecta of Making Things Happen, The Overachiever's Dilemma, facilitators of fastidiousness, expectations, and purpose. They don\u2019t talk about\xa0The Perks of Being a Wallflower\xa0or\xa0Joy Division (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FD2SfQJOK08).\xa0references\xa0* Mr. Joey's Lullaby (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xdt58T366xw)\xa0* Apropos of nada:\xa0"You\xa0DO\xa0doodle on the paper!"\xa0* "Be water, my friend." (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cJMwBwFj5nQ)