Published: May 12, 2023, 8 a.m.
In this podcast, we ask the question... What free help is available?
We have observed that family members who have a "big" problem on their hands become paralysed by the fear and anxiety that comes with chaos imposed by the disorder.
There is much help to be had once they overcome the unjustified shame that they feel as they awaken to unpleasant truths.
- Education is the key that unlocks the door to getting the help they need and deserve. First, we suggest family members consult the major books on the topic, such as Alcohol Explained by William Porter and Drug Addiction by Gary Fike.
- To learn more about the science behind alcoholism, visit www.niaaa.nih.gov and www.drugabuse.gov the website for NIDA, the National Institute on Drug Abuse. They are the world's most prominent authority on both disorders.
- Chances are that family members live in a city where there are local Al-Anon offices and meetings available. They can also visit their local AA Central Office (that's what they are called) to see what literature is available for a modest price. All literature is pre-approved to make sure it comes from a trustworthy source.
- Making an appointment with an AODA - Alcohol or Drug Addiction - counsellor is a wise choice. There the family member can share the most intimate details of family problems in complete confidence and get the insights they need to move forward.
Usually, other extended family members are the last to be consulted or told of the situation due to the shame that comes with having a problem child or spouse causing so much grief at home.
Education, however, is the key that unlocks the door to banishing shame and getting the help family members and their loved ones need and deserve.