One of the most important skills we can learn is how to regulate ourselves, riding the emotional waves without either ignoring or being overwhelmed by them. Associate therapist Elizabeth Ferreira joins Forrest to explore how we can feel our feelings while staying calm, collected, and in control. They walk through two examples of under- and over-regulation, and Elizabeth offers specific practices that might help in each common situation.\nYou can watch this episode on YouTube.\nKey Topics:\n0:00: Introduction\n1:50: Creating safety and connection with a new client\n6:30: Therapy as an opportunity for reparative experiences\n9:45: Learning to regulate when you have traumatized parts\n16:55: What\u2019s helped Elizabeth heal patterns of overregulation and dissociation\n23:50: A hypothetical dialogue with an overregulated client\n29:10: Titration and traumatic release\n33:05: Labeling and accepting emotions, and empowering the \u201cwise adult\u201d\n40:15: A hypothetical dialogue with an underregulated client\xa0\n46:30: Celebrating when we notice our patterns\n49:30: Movement, tapping, tremoring, journaling, and other practices\n53:55: Finding a supportive community\n57:10: Being with your body, and following your curiosity\n58:55: Recap\nForrest is now writing on Substack, check out his work there.\nSupport the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.\nSponsors\nStart each day right with IQBAR\u2019s brain-and-body-boosting bars, hydration mixes, and mushroom coffees. Just text BEINGWELL to sixty-four thousand (64-000) and get an exclusive offer of 20% off plus free shipping.\nTrust your gut with Seed\u2019s DS-01 Daily Synbiotic. Go to Seed.com/BEINGWELL and use code 25BEINGWELL to get 25% off your first month.\xa0\nOneSkin focuses on delivering more than superficial results for your skin. Get started today with 15% off using code BEINGWELL at oneskin.co.\xa0\nJoin over a million people using BetterHelp, the world\u2019s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!\nWant to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.\nConnect with the show:\n\nSubscribe on iTunes\n\nFollow Forrest on YouTube\n\nFollow us on Instagram\n\nFollow Forrest on Instagram\n\nFollow Rick on Facebook\n\nFollow Forrest on Facebook\n\nVisit Forrest's website