How to Change Your Perspective

Published: Oct. 9, 2023, 10 a.m.

How we view ourselves, other people, and the world around us has a huge impact on the emotions we feel, the choices we make, and the quality of the lives we lead. These are our perspectives, and they\u2019re the foundation our lives are built on\u2026which is why changing them is so freakin\u2019 hard.\xa0\nIn this episode, Forrest and Rick explore what perspectives are, what a healthy perspective looks like in practice, and how we can deliberately shift our perspectives over time. Specific topics include unpacking where perspectives come from, getting better at identifying when a perspective starts to affect our behavior, and thinking of ourselves as \u201crivers\u201d rather than \u201crocks.\u201d By the end of this episode, you\u2019ll learn the key skills you need to change the views that have been holding you back.\xa0\nNeurodharma Course! Join Dr. Rick for Neurodharma, a live, online course focused on developing seven key qualities that help us steady the mind, warm the heart, and find a reliable sense of inner peace. Neurodharma launches October 14, use code BeingWell20 for 20% off the purchase price.\xa0\nYou can watch this episode on YouTube.\nKey Topics:\n0:00: Introduction and info on Rick\u2019s Neurodharma course\n2:10: Aspects of the kind of perspective we\u2019re talking about\n5:50: Change, being grounded in reality, and self-compassion\n12:40: Fixed perspectives, fear, and a few examples from Rick\n19:40: Shame, and conflict with others due to changes in behavior\n22:35: Lack of self-confidence leading to rigidity\n25:50: De-centering, joy, viewing yourself as a river, and playfulness\n31:45: Roleplay, and asking \u2018what if?\u2019\n35:25: Inquiring into how our perspectives are constructed\n44:35: Emotional imagination, and retelling your story\n47:10: How our values and aspirations drive our perspective\n51:50: Asking which perspectives support what\u2019s important to you\n54:05: Recap\nSupport the Podcast: We're now on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link.\nSponsors:\nFactor delivers fresh, never-frozen, fully prepared meals right to your door. Head to factormeals.com/beingwell50 and use code beingwell50 to get 50% off.\xa0\nBody Electric is an interactive six-part podcast series from NPR that investigates how our relationship with technology is impacting our health. Listen wherever you get your podcasts!\nJoin over a million people using BetterHelp, the world\u2019s largest online counseling platform. Visit betterhelp.com/beingwell for 10% off your first month!\nWant to sleep better? Try the Calm app! Visit calm.com/beingwell for 40% off a premium subscription.\nFinally get that project off the ground with Squarespace! Head to squarespace.com/beingwell for a free trial, and when you\u2019re ready to launch use coupon code BEINGWELL to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain.\nConnect with the show:\n\nSubscribe on iTunes\n\nFollow Forrest on YouTube\n\nFollow us on Instagram\n\nFollow Forrest on Instagram\n\nFollow Rick on Facebook\n\nFollow Forrest on Facebook\n\nVisit Forrest's website