Episode 289: Surprise Party (Phoenix Mandel)

Published: April 18, 2024, 5:53 p.m.

Have you ever desperately craved \u2018grown-up time\u2019? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they\u2019re determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-themed gathering - uh oh, that could mean breaking their Master\u2019s BDSM agreements! Never one to back down, Phoenix creatively doles out lube, fear, orgasms and dirty talk, and walks away satisfied, proud and better yet, with a deeper understanding of their own boundaries and desires. #SpiritOfTheLaw #IfNotTheLetterOfTheLaw

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Song: \u2018Uh Oh\u2019 (Sub Urban, featuring Benee)

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About our Storyteller:

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Phoenix Mandel (they/them) is a Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, counseling, and consulting services in Oakland, California, traveling/ on location, and virtually. They specialize in BDSM, LGBTQIA+, consensual nonmonogamy, sex positivity, and other areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights.\xa0Learn more at:\xa0https://phoenixmandel.com/

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Key Words:

Kink | Gender Identity l Play Party l Pro Dom l Primal Play l Strap-On l Pro Sub l Femme l Chained l Negotiation l Master l Switch l BDSM Contract l D/S Agreement l Puppy Pile l Red Solo Cup l Grown Up Activity l Travel Nanny l Canada l Sex Party l Winter l Simultaneous Orgasm l Good Girl l Buxom l Superhero l Lumberjack l Beard I Prostate l Creativity l Electric l Slave Relationship l Travel Adapter l Magic Wand l Director l Scene l Cuddle Puddle l Sex Educator l Orgasm Denial l Kink Performer l Higher Purpose l Dirty Talk l Lube l Fear l Cockstance l Romantic Orientation l Daddy/Slut l Gender Orientation l

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Episode links:

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Rachel McCrafty\u2019s Celebration of Life: Can you help us with the costs of cremation, and with the expenses of Rachel\u2019s Celebration of Life gathering this Saturday?

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Rachel\u2019s GoFundMe is at

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Here\u2019s a few articles about our friend Rachel McCrafty:

\u2022 https://makethings.make.co/p/mission-rachel-crafty-sadd

And

\u2022 https://www.acemakerspace.org/celebrating-the-life-of-executive-director-rachel-crafty-sadd/

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And this is Rachel McCrafty\u2019s Gift-O-Matic:

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Finally, Her Celebration of Life at Ace Makerspace this weekend:

https://www.acemakerspace.org/event/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sadd/

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Info about Reid Mihalko\u2019s Sex Geek Summer Camp:

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