Episode 288: Momsexual (Tracy Clark-Flory)

Published: April 12, 2024, 7:31 p.m.

Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week\u2019s story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wielding/childbearing dominatrix, a lactating cam model, and others who find being with child a powerful proposition. Her research - and a permanently plugged in Magic Wand - provide a new perspective on raging hormones, body image, and desire. #KnockedUp

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Song: \u2018Dirty Little Secret\u2019 (Jefferson Bergey)

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About our Storyteller:

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Tracy Clark-Flory\xa0is a journalist, essayist, and author of the memoir\xa0Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire\xa0(Penguin, 2021), an NPR best book of the year.\xa0New York Times\xa0bestselling author Rebecca Traister called\xa0Want Me\xa0\u201cintimate, challenging, and so very smart\u2026 a gift.\u201d Peggy Orenstein, author of the\xa0New York Times\xa0bestseller\xa0Girls & Sex, called it \u201ccrucially important.\u201d Clark-Flory has written for\xa0Cosmopolitan,\xa0Elle,\xa0Esquire,\xa0Glamour, The Guardian, and\xa0The Washington Post, to name just a few. She is a former senior staff writer at Jezebel and Salon. Her work has shown up in the\xa0Best Sex Writing\xa0anthology and she has been called \u201cone of the best journalists of our generation writing about sexuality.\u201d She writes a\xa0weekly newsletter\xa0on sex, feminism, motherhood, and pop culture at\xa0tracyclarkflory.substack.com.

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Key Words:

Pregnant | Swollen Belly l Beer Belly l Gangbang l Frat Boys l Casting Couch l Creepy Monsieur l Fetus l Desire l Thought Police l Hormones l Vibrator l Husband l Limitless Orgasms l Missionary l Cowgirl l Journalist l Research l Dominatrix l Weapon I Basketball l Trimester l Ample Curves l Neuroses l Hangups l Biology l Creativity l Lactation l Glowing l Search Term l Whip l Camgirl l Maternity l Slap l Plead l Magic Wand l Nerve Endings l Pickles and Ice Cream l Reproduction l Eroticized l Wholesome Sexuality l Buzz l

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