Both the Atlantic\u2019s critique of polyamory and my defense of it shared the same villain - \u201ctherapy culture\u201d, the idea that you should prioritize \u201cfinding your true self\u201d and make drastic changes if your current role doesn\u2019t seem \u201cauthentically you\u201d.
A friend recently suggested a defense of this framework, which surprised me enough that I now relay it to you.
https://www.astralcodexten.com/p/in-partial-grudging-defense-of-some\xa0