Suppose a lot of\xa0that stuff about bravery debates\xa0is right.
That lots of the advice people give is useful for some people, but that the opposite advice is useful for other people.
For example, \u201cYou need to stop being so hard on yourself, remember you are your own worst critic\u201d versus \u201cStop making excuses for yourself, you will never be able to change until you admit you\u2019ve hit bottom.\u201d
Or \u201cYou need to remember that the government can\u2019t solve all problems and that some regulations are counterproductive\u201d versus \u201cYou need to remember that the free market can\u2019t solve all problems and that some regulations are necessary.\u201d
Or \u201cYou need to pay more attention to your diet or you\u2019ll end up very unhealthy\u201d versus \u201cYou need to pay less attention to your weight or you\u2019ll end up in a spiral of shame and self-loathing and at risk of eating disorders.\u201d
Or \u201cFollow your dreams, you don\u2019t want to be working forever at a job you hate\u201d, versus \u201cYour dream of becoming a professional cosplayer may not be the best way to ensure a secure future for your family, go into\xa0petroleum engineering\xa0instead.\u201d