I've been accused multiple times about being slow to react. Planning out the next step might come across as a weakness to some who lead. It's a difference between cleaning out your heart versus clearing your heart. How you want to receive is your choice. But did that choice lead to peaceful events? Anger is a symptom it's not a solution. So many choose to vent because nobody likes a loud and unfriendly dog and it's bite. Only to learn the four legged little creature is the most tame person in the room.